Sleeping with Emma - 陪睡
* 10 months 3-4 weeks *
It's been about two weeks or so now that every so often, Emma would wake up at night and wanted a cuddle. When she cries at night, I pick her up to check if she's okay, then immediately, her little head rests on my shoulders and she goes back to sleep. As long as you are in the room, she's fine going back to bed.
This resulted in mummy sleeping in her room with her at times. She will keep checking to see if you are there and you just need to quietly say, go back to bed, then she goes back to sleep. So now, I've got blankets in the bed next to her cot ready to go. She was fine and sleeping through for about 5-6 days in a row... then the last few nights, on and off again.
This then evolves into mummy actually sleeping with Emma in the king single bed. This is new. Because she never liked sleeping next to someone in the same bed. She wriggles too much and doesn't like to be held to sleep. But now, she would just lean next to you and sleep with you. It is quite sweet, except mummy really prefers to be able to sleep through the night without being woken up! :P
So there's been 2-3 times I had to sleep with her. The funny thing is, she tends to sleep a lot better when you sleep with her. I guess she's just a little scared for whatever reason.
Hopefully she will grow out of it (or have less nightmares?) and sleeping with mummy (and maybe daddy in our big bed)would just be an occassional thing/treat.
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大概有兩週左右了吧, 妹妹半夜醒來就要人家抱抱. 一把他抱起來他就靠在我的肩上又睡著了.. 只要有人在房間裡面, 他就肯乖乖回去睡覺. 所以有幾次媽媽就在那陪睡. 他還會一直抬頭看看你還在不在, 看不到人會抗議... 你只要小聲的說:回去睡覺啦. 他就乖乖回去睡了.
後來媽媽在房間裡還準備了棉被, 不然冷了好幾次... 結果他乖乖的自己睡到天亮這樣睡了5-6晚吧.. 最近這幾天又開始反反覆覆... 就這樣變成從睡他旁邊的床, 到把他抓來抱著一起睡.
這倒是很新鮮, 因為他從小就不習慣跟人家一起睡的. 都會亂扭亂動... 還是習慣自己睡. 這幾次到是就乖乖的靠在我旁邊啊, 或是給我抱著睡... 這倒是一個很甜美的新體驗... 不過媽媽還是寧可可以好好的一覺睡到天亮啦.
就這樣媽媽去陪睡了2-3次吧...而且跟他一起睡他就睡的特別好 ^^;;; 可能是怕怕吧? 希望他可以很快就恢復自信囉...(還是不要再做惡夢囉?) 以後只有偶爾要跟媽媽(還有爸爸)一起睡囉.... :)
It's been about two weeks or so now that every so often, Emma would wake up at night and wanted a cuddle. When she cries at night, I pick her up to check if she's okay, then immediately, her little head rests on my shoulders and she goes back to sleep. As long as you are in the room, she's fine going back to bed.
This resulted in mummy sleeping in her room with her at times. She will keep checking to see if you are there and you just need to quietly say, go back to bed, then she goes back to sleep. So now, I've got blankets in the bed next to her cot ready to go. She was fine and sleeping through for about 5-6 days in a row... then the last few nights, on and off again.
This then evolves into mummy actually sleeping with Emma in the king single bed. This is new. Because she never liked sleeping next to someone in the same bed. She wriggles too much and doesn't like to be held to sleep. But now, she would just lean next to you and sleep with you. It is quite sweet, except mummy really prefers to be able to sleep through the night without being woken up! :P
So there's been 2-3 times I had to sleep with her. The funny thing is, she tends to sleep a lot better when you sleep with her. I guess she's just a little scared for whatever reason.
Hopefully she will grow out of it (or have less nightmares?) and sleeping with mummy (and maybe daddy in our big bed)would just be an occassional thing/treat.
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大概有兩週左右了吧, 妹妹半夜醒來就要人家抱抱. 一把他抱起來他就靠在我的肩上又睡著了.. 只要有人在房間裡面, 他就肯乖乖回去睡覺. 所以有幾次媽媽就在那陪睡. 他還會一直抬頭看看你還在不在, 看不到人會抗議... 你只要小聲的說:回去睡覺啦. 他就乖乖回去睡了.
後來媽媽在房間裡還準備了棉被, 不然冷了好幾次... 結果他乖乖的自己睡到天亮這樣睡了5-6晚吧.. 最近這幾天又開始反反覆覆... 就這樣變成從睡他旁邊的床, 到把他抓來抱著一起睡.
這倒是很新鮮, 因為他從小就不習慣跟人家一起睡的. 都會亂扭亂動... 還是習慣自己睡. 這幾次到是就乖乖的靠在我旁邊啊, 或是給我抱著睡... 這倒是一個很甜美的新體驗... 不過媽媽還是寧可可以好好的一覺睡到天亮啦.
就這樣媽媽去陪睡了2-3次吧...而且跟他一起睡他就睡的特別好 ^^;;; 可能是怕怕吧? 希望他可以很快就恢復自信囉...(還是不要再做惡夢囉?) 以後只有偶爾要跟媽媽(還有爸爸)一起睡囉.... :)
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